{"id":371,"date":"2021-04-20T14:18:28","date_gmt":"2021-04-20T18:18:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/meditatum.com\/?p=371"},"modified":"2021-04-21T11:50:23","modified_gmt":"2021-04-21T15:50:23","slug":"life-lessons-how-i-lost-32-pounds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/meditatum.com\/index.php\/2021\/04\/20\/life-lessons-how-i-lost-32-pounds\/","title":{"rendered":"Life lessons: How I lost 32 pounds"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Back in early January, I stood on a scale and gazed down with a sinking feeling: 202 lbs!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am 5&#8242; 10&#8243; tall and the BMI formula tells me I should be in the 170 lb range. That makes sense: I was around 170 during college and for several years after college. Slowly, over about 20 years, I added a pound here and there. Along the way, I just stopped weighing myself. I was sort of scared to look at the number on the scale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not depressing enough to actually fix the problem, but still depressing&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During the time leading up to my decision to lose weight, I was walking three miles almost every day in our very hilly neighborhood, but doing very little else that would qualify as serious exercise. Most of the day, I was sitting looking at a computer screen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The biggest thing I was doing wrong was eating. I ate some good food and quite a bit of bad food. I ate fruit and vegetables but also a lot of salty snacks. I drank several soft drinks a week. I ate fast food 1-2 times a week and at a nice restaurant at least once a week. If I had anything going for me, it was that I have never been too attracted to desserts and other sweet foods.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Overall, my diet was not crazy, but it was high in calories and frankly was not something I paid any attention to. If I wanted something, I ate it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In spite of my unhealthy habits, I still did not look big. In fact, the average person looking at me probably thought my weight was healthy, or at most, I should lose 5-10 lbs. Regardless, I was overweight and I knew it. And finally, I decided to do something about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When I decided I wanted to lose the extra 32 pounds, I started looking for plans. I knew I needed some kind of plan; I am wired that way. On the other hand, I briefly looked at the popular plans out there and quickly rejected them. You know the ones I mean: the ones your friends promote on Facebook that involve either expensive supplements or expensive diet food.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I did not reject those plans because I hate MLM. If you are working hard in MLM, I am your fan. I rejected them because I did not think the rigidity of those plans would work for me and I wanted to eat naturally (not tons of shakes or disgusting foods). I figured I would only be able to stick with a plan if it did not make my life miserable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, I settled for Weight Watchers. By the way, nothing is for sale here. I am not shrilling for Weight Watchers (note that I am not linking to their website). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I chose WW for a few reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>It has been around for ages, which is pretty good evidence that it works.<\/li><li>It has great reviews from organizations and professionals that actually know what they are talking about.<\/li><li>It allows me to eat what I want. I can eat Five Guys on Friday if I want. Granted, I have to account for that somewhere else in my diet, but I can still eat Five Guys. I can put up with a lot of low-calorie meals if I get to splurge once in a while.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>It took me 13 weeks to lose the 32 pounds. I lost over 10 of those pounds in the first three weeks. The next 10 pounds took four more weeks, and the last 12 pounds took six more weeks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"917\" height=\"693\" src=\"https:\/\/meditatum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7026d2af3d466a56f6e2ccb64ed5a652.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-598\" srcset=\"https:\/\/meditatum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7026d2af3d466a56f6e2ccb64ed5a652.png 917w, https:\/\/meditatum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7026d2af3d466a56f6e2ccb64ed5a652-300x227.png 300w, https:\/\/meditatum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7026d2af3d466a56f6e2ccb64ed5a652-768x580.png 768w, https:\/\/meditatum.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/7026d2af3d466a56f6e2ccb64ed5a652-600x453.png 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 917px) 100vw, 917px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It is really simple to understand why WW works. It works because it forces you to start tracking your eating and thus, paying attention to what you eat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is a simple principle for life in general:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>If you want to see progress in an area, find a way to start measuring it and tracking the progress.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In WW, you are of course tracking weight, but you are also tracking your diet because every food counts as points against a daily and weekly allowance. Over time, you figure out how to keep your points lower, which is forcing you to eat healthier (and less). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is another big reason why WW worked for me though: it did not ruin my life. It did not force me to eat things I did not want to eat or do exercises I did not want to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is some information about what I ate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I happen to love fruit, and fruit does not even count as points in WW. So, I decided I would have all the fruit I wanted, regardless of the cost. For example, I love raspberries, and I have eaten a ton of raspberries over the last few months. I made sure we were stocked up on all the fruits I love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting plenty of protein is important to maintain muscle mass so that was another focus for me. Chicken breast is almost all protein and I ate a ton of it. I did not really skimp on any meat though I tended to choose leaner cuts of steak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I also ate a lot of greek yogurt because I love it, and it is a great source of protein. I ate a lot of vegetables and a lot of eggs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I pretty much cut out bread from my diet and almost all processed foods such as chips and baked goods. I have not had a sugared soft drink in three months though I will admit I drink a Coke Zero from time to time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Overall, the diet changes just did not feel like much of a sacrifice. Marla and I kept our weekly habit of a date night on Wednesday night at a nice restaurant and I made sure we kept our tradition of having at least one fast food meal with the family on weekends. Granted I had to make some changes in what I ordered, but it did not ruin the experience by any means.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, Marla and I like to go to a particular Italian restaurant on Wednesdays. Before I started dieting, on a typical night there, I would drink a sangria and maybe three Cokes. I would split an appetizer, split a loaf of bread (that you dip in oil), eat a salad with ranch dressing, and an entre with a side of fettuccine alfredo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On WW in diet mode, I got around 25 points a day to spend on food. That meal I just listed is around 100 points. Truthfully, I should have been 400 lbs. Or, I should have been dead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We did not stop going to that restaurant after starting the diet. I still got the same entre (15 points), ordered a vegetable instead of fettuccine alfredo (0 points), drank only water (0 points), split a salad (5 points), and ate half as much bread (4 points). That is still 24 points, which meant I either needed to use some weekly points or eat lean (almost all fruits and vegetables) the rest of the day. Either option worked fine and I enjoyed those meals about as much. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have learned that eating a smaller portion slowly and savoring the taste is at least as good as gulping down a large portion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In regards to exercise, I am not a guy that likes to exercise. I do however like to walk. I was already walking 45 minutes a day, and at first, I decided to double that. I did that for a while but eventually went back to walking 45 minutes a day and also doing a 30-minute resistance workout. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, between the increased exercise and the reduced calories, the weight came off. It was not the easiest thing I have ever done but is far from the hardest. Looking back, there was nothing special about my plan. It is just a grind where you try to work off 1-3 pounds every week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Going forward, I am maintaining my weight by being much more conscious of what I eat. However, make no mistake about it: in general, I eat what I want, even if I need to adjust the serving size. I had Five Guys over the weekend (a single cheeseburger rather than a double). I ate ice cream yesterday (about half a bowl rather than a full one). In my opinion, if you try to do this in such a way that deprives you too much, you are destined to fail. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In terms of exercise now that I am in maintenance mode, I am doing maybe half as many resistance workouts, but more walking. (I love walking a ton&#8211;I listen to a book a week while walking.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the way, I also bought a standing desk a few months ago and very quickly learned to love that. If you have not used one, you probably hate the idea, but I will tell you that you very quickly get used to standing at a desk, and it will feel perfectly comfortable after a few weeks. If you get really tired, you can sit for a while. But standing during the day is healthier than sitting and may burn up to 400 extra calories.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So those are my two big recommendations: if you want\/need to diet, first, find a system that forces you to measure and track progress, not just with weight but other factors as well. And secondly, do it in such a way that you can still eat and exercise in ways you find enjoyable at least some of the time. In other words, don&#8217;t try to do something that is going to ruin your enjoyment of life.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back in early January, I stood on a scale and gazed down with a sinking feeling: 202 lbs! I am 5&#8242; 10&#8243; tall and the BMI formula tells me I should be in the 170 lb range. 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